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Nicki81  

Christmas 2009

Hello! Just wanted to say Merry Christmas to everyone! My son, daughter, and I are doing fine. I hope everyone has a blessed holiday! :)
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Nicki81   in reply to Impression08   on

Why Women Love Men

Love This!

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Nicki81  

Leah

I had my daughter on Friday August 29th. Her name is Leah and she weighed 9lbs 1oz.
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Nicki81  

Fed up

Haven't been on here in a while. I just feel like there is no hope anymore and that things are never gonna get better. My immediate family consists of myself, brother, and my mom. They are very distant and not very caring. I have many associates but no real close friends. An associate is kind of a hi and bye type of friend nothing like a close friend. That's what I long for but have not been able to find. I haven't had a real friend in years. I just want to feel happy again and not so sad. I think about my daughter who I am due to have any day now. I was with a man that I thought loved and cared for me. If I would have known he was just gonna run away and leave me I don't think I would have even went on with the pregnancy. Call me whatever you want! At this point I don't really care. I'm just fed up. Fed up with everything and everyone.
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Nicki81  

Recent pics of my son

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Nicki81  

Leah Nicholle

Only 4 more days and hopefully she will be here!!!
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Nicki81  

Hello! My name is Nicholle. I am a little bit older than you but in the same kind of situation. Check out my page and read my About Me section. Is your children's father around to help you? Try to apply for public assistance so you can get TANF and Food stamps. Did you apply for WIC? They help with baby formula and milk, eggs, cheese, juice, cereal, etc. Also try to apply for low income public housing or Section 8. These places are income based so that will help you a lot. I hope this helps.

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Nicki81   in reply to Lilliana8982   on

Help in applying for help

Hello Lillana! How are you? I just wanted to let you know that you can apply for public assistance online. That's how I did it. You just go to your county human services website and set up an account then you can apply for cash assistance, food stamps, medical, etc. Also if you call the weldare office they can mail you an application so you don't have to come out. As far as transportation to the doctors...... you can apply for access or are there any family members or friends that could help you? I hope this helps you out!
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Nicki81   in reply to APOCON01   on

About APOCON01

Hello! There is a really good website called sittercity.com All you do is type in your zipcode and they will link you up with babysitters in your area. They give a bit of information about the person plus a picture of them. The only thing is that these are people that will watch your child or children in their home or your home. These are not daycare centers. I know some people are leary about people taking their kids into their homes. Just check it out! Hope this helps you!!

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Nicki81   in reply to Strlightsky135   on

About Strlightsky135

Hi! I know exactly what you are going through. Go to your public assistance office and apply for food stamps and cash also medical. Then find out where you can apply for WIC. They help with baby formula, milk, eggs, cheese, juice etc.. Your child can be on WIC from birth to age 5 or 6 I believe. I get WIC for my son. They will also give you checks for yourself cause you are pregnant. As far as housing goes go apply for public housing. They all go by your income so that helps out. There are lots of agencies like the Salvation Army and others that help with used baby items. I hope this helps you!

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Nicki81  

This too shall pass

Just wanted to say hello. I know sometimes it feels like things will never get better but please know that oneday they will. That's what I tell myself everyday and I believe it too. I know that everything in life happens for a reason and right now I don't really know what that reason is but oneday God is gonna open my eyes and I will know why I went through this. That goes for all of us. Oneday we will all know the reason why we went through whatever it is we are dealing with and we will also see the lesson that it taught us. Just remember that nothing in life is permanent and things will get better. Just like many things in life this too shall pass.

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Nicki81  

My son William My reason for living

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Nicki81   in reply to PLEASE,helpme   on

About PLEASE,helpme

Try applying for public assistance so that you can get food stamps and cash for yourself and your children. Then go apply for emergency public housing. I don't know how long you have til eviction but there programs that will help with money when you have an eviction notice. Hope this helps you!!!

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Nicki81   in reply to twilboltz   on

About twilboltz

I live in Pittsburgh Pennsylvania. I was recently on the Welfare Justice Project website. They have a copy of the welfare handbook which you can download and read.  In 2004 the ban on individuals with felony drug convictions was thrown out. So under the new guidlines these people can apply for benefits. So maybe things have changed with the housing programs also. Just look into it. See if you can talk to the head person in charge to get the facts. There also has to be some kind of social service program to help people in your situation.

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Nicki81   in reply to lostNlonley   on

About lostNlonley

Hi! I know exactly what you are going through. May I ask you where the baby's father is? If you really need help try applying for public assistance. There is also the WIC program that helps with food like milk, eggs, cheese, cereal, etc and infant formula. You could also apply for housing assistance.  Go online toyour county website to apply for these state programs.

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Nicki81  

About Nicki81

Hi! My name is Nicholle and I am a 27 year old single mother. I am mom to a beautiful 3 year old boy named William and am expecting my second child  next month. I am having a girl. My current situation is not the best one but I am doing what I can to stay positive. I am a CNA but was working as a  housekeeper at a local nursing home until that got to be too hard to do because of my pregnancy. So I let my job go in May of 2009 and have been receiving public assistance since then. My boyfriend recently left without any explanation and wont contact me or return my calls or messages so I am going through this alone. I love him a lot but I decided that I can't keep on putting up with all of this. He has basically been absent for my whole 9 months. When things were good he was around but when things got bad or if we were fighting then he would leave and go back to Washington D.C. where he is from to be with his family. So he just basically abandoned me til he felt like he was ready to talk or come back again. Like I said before I do love this man a lot but I don't deserve his mistreatment or abandonment. I can't take it anymore! It hurts to much and the stress is killing me. I sometimes wish I would have gotten an abortion so I wouldn't have to deal with any of this. This man told me he loved me and wanted to marry me etc. I never thought he was just going to leave. Not when I need him the most. Right now I have nothing for my baby. No clothes, no diapers, no place for her to sleep etc.. I don't even have a car seat or a ride set up for the trip home from the hospital. I just can't wait to have my daughter so that I can go back to working again. All I want is to be a good mother to my children.
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